How to road trip with a toddler and a kid
Our family has covered approximately 3,000 miles in the last three weeks as we’ve traversed the United States to kick off our family gap year. It’s been a great introduction to the world of family road trips! Here are our top tips from the trenches:
1. Don’t pack the car up to the roof. Learn from our mistake. For as light as we travel when jetting around the world, we were a little more lax when packing our CR-V for five weeks on the road. If packing the car feels like a game of Tetris at the beginning of your journey, it will only go downhill from there. Promise. As of this writing, we’re three weeks in and our car bears a striking resemblance to a nuclear waste site. (In our defense, we had just put 99% of our worldly possessions in storage and needed to bring provisions for a few weeks of travel, a few weeks of downtime at Nana’s house and a year of backpacking around the world. Everything from suits and ties to trekking clothes!)
Make sure to bring these road trip essentials with you!
2. Mix up your accommodation options. Thanks to both circumstance and preference, we’ve stayed in a wide range of places over the last three weeks. It’s worked out great! Visiting family and friends has given us the comforts of home and warm hospitality. Staying in our own vacation home through GuestToGuest has given us the opportunity to spread out and let loose (laundry at midnight? No problem!) – when we left, Jacob suggested that we trade homes with the owner and stay there permanently! You can get all the details on GuestToGuest home exchange here.
We don’t often stay at hotels, but they’ve been a blessing on this trip now that the kids love to swim; the kids love a late-night stop at the hotel pool to beat the heat or to unwind after a long day in the car. We had an amazing stay at Little America Hotel in Flagstaff, where amenities include not only a pool, but also a playground and hiking trail. Our favorite utilitarian hotels are the ones where the kids have a separate sleeping area (not just for our privacy, but it’s easier for them to fall asleep). We usually book through booking.com to find great deals, even on last-minute hotel stays if our itinerary is flexible.
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3. Split your long drives up as much as possible. Let me start by saying that the kids have been amazing in the car. Long car rides with toddlers aren’t ideal, but we haven’t heard a single complaint or bored “are we there yet?” I’m writing this article from our longest leg, from Chicago to Philadelphia. The total drive time is around 12 hours and we managed almost 7 of that in one day with only a 10 minute break. The kids were troopers, but crazed by the end! At least for our family, 4-5 hours in a single day is a more manageable length; for a longer stretch, we’d need to start earlier in the day and take a substantial break in the middle.
4. Use technology, but use it wisely. The kids sure love their Amazon Fire tablets! We almost never grant access to them back home, so they remain an extra special treat when we travel. On driving days we try to start without them for a few hours and only hand them out part-way through our drive. Our other favorite road trip activities for kids are storytelling, playing with finger puppets or working on a small LEGO set. If we’re taking a long lunch break, the tablets go away when we get back in the car in the hopes of catching a post-lunch siesta. If you don’t have tablets for the kids yet, check out this great deal on a two-pack of the Fire Kids tablets! They’re indispensable for traveling with toddlers in a car. Amazon includes a worry-free warranty and lots of great content through the Freetime Unlimited plan. If you already have Fire tablets, don’t miss our list of the top free apps for toddlers and preschoolers.
5. Relax, stay flexible and have fun. With reasonable planning, your road trip can be great for everyone! Don’t try to squeeze in too much, and if something gets in the way just find a solution and move on. When our car’s air conditioner died on the way into Flagstaff, I quickly whipped out my phone and found a local mechanic to squeeze us in the next morning and a car to rent for the day. Despite adding a small layer of complication to the day, we didn’t let it cramp our style! It was just another part of the adventure and we got to take a sweet new ride up to the Grand Canyon for the day. The experience even inspired us to spend the drive telling the kids vacation mishap stories from our own childhoods, which made it a memorable ride for us all.
Your family road trip checklist
Snacks, lots and lots of snacks (our car currently feels like a showroom for the Annie’s Organic line)
Amazon Fire kids tablets / headphones / headphone splitter (great for playing the kids’ music on my phone while we listen to adults music on the car stereo, awesome screen-free kids car entertainment)
Kids road trip atlas to read up on cool landmarks
These great apps will help streamline your road trip!
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